There are four types of people who narcissists tend to be attracted to, according to Arluck:. It may appear like narcissists go for certain types of people and try to destroy them as a reflection of their own low self esteem. This may be true for a subtype of narcissists called closet narcissists, but for exhibitionist and toxic narcissists the joy comes from the destruction of others.
More often than not, a relationship with a narcissist is all about control. If they feel they have power over their partner, a narcissist will see the relationship as successful. That journey is what makes it diabolical, and it's why they enjoy it. World globe An icon of the world globe, indicating different international options. Get the Insider App. Click here to learn more. A leading-edge research firm focused on digital transformation.
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That vanity is the reason narcissists are often physically attractive themselves. They are the kind of people to go to the gym 5 times a week, have a skincare routine, wear expensive clothes, etc. So they are immensely attracted to beautiful women.
And the more beautiful the woman is, the bigger the ego high they receive. However, the high will not be long-lasting. A narcissist will sense that and use it to his advantage. On the other hand, many narcissists are driven to success by their need for attention and admiration. Until she worked on her childhood issues, she seeks out a familiar abusive pattern with her romantic partners — one that a narcissist is happy to provide. It can help you become aware of how you might be subconsciously replaying a father-child dynamic in your relationships, and choosing men who are either emotionally unavailable or abusive.
His ex really did a number on him. He just needs the love of a good woman to heal. You can only fix your own tendency toward codependency. The truth is, narcissists are attracted to shiny objects. Kind of like birds. Or children. So narcissists are attracted to women who shine, who are exceptional in some way, and who have a lot to offer. Because narcissists would like to take what you have to offer. We all have weaknesses. Narcissists are just good at zeroing in on that weakness and using it to control you, or to destroy you.
Psychological dysfunction typically originates in childhood. A lot of people do that, and I believe the point could be better qualified to give off a less general essence.
I agree with this. Everything is complex, and these distinctions can guide us but not tell us everything either. Your email address will not be published. Each month I send my subscribers the roundup of the latest posts from the blog.
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